Americans’ respect for discipline is deeply connected with ideas about honor and self-restraint, and also with respect for practice, hard work, and the excellence we believe those traits to engender.
When Jackie Robinson became the first African American to play major league baseball, he faced an entire season’s worth of the most terrible racism and ignorant hatred imaginable, from people in the stands, from his opponents, and even from his own teammates. Yet Robinson never once fought back, never lost control of himself, because he realized that to do so would be to lose sight of his ultimate goal: seeing the majors completely integrated. At the same time, if Jackie Robinson had been merely an average third baseman, or a so-so hitter, the trail he was blazing would have been immeasurably more difficult. Just as much as his discipline, his greatness helped him win over the public and achieve his goals—if there’s one thing America likes more than a hardworking underdog, it’s a hardworking underdog who wins.
Telling stories that focus on the discipline shown by hard-working immigrant mothers and father can help engender respect for their struggles. While there is a real danger of reinforcing stereotypes about “deserving” and “undeserving” members of the society we care about, highlighting the core American values animating our stories can be of immense value in convincing our fellow Americans of the justness of our cause.